Just a positive note (I know, we don't have enough of these).
"A" contributed 75% of his paycheck to cover expenses this week and has been cleaning house & being "Mr. mom" so that I can spend my evenings and weekends in bed, lying down. He's doing dishes, helping cook dinner, helping get "a" to bed, vacuuming, the works. Today, since I have to be sleep deprived for my test this afternoon; he'll be driving me to & from my appointment.
Figure I always rant about the stress he's added to my life (not so much lately); and rant about the lack of employment... but don't spend enough time talking about how he helps me on a daily basis.